Tuesday, July 17, 2007

1st Marriage of Prophet Mohammad with Khadijah

The Millennium Biography of Prophet Muhammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam)

Note: Before reading the article, the reader should know that Hazrat Abdul Muttalib was the grand father, Hazrat Abdullah was the father and Hazrat Amina was the mother of Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam). The previous series of this article can be read at Prophet Mohammad &
* Other Prophets


By: Grand Shaykh, Professor Hasan Qaribullah
Dean of Umm Durman Islamic University and Sammania Grand Shaykh

HADHRAT KHADIJAH, DAUGHTER OF KHUWAULID

Among the traders of Mecca was a well respected, honorable, refined, wealthy widowed lady named Hadhrat Khadijah. She was very beautiful and had many suitors; however, she declined their offers of marriage. Abu Talib suggested to his nephew, who was now twenty-four, that he might wish to contact Hadhrat Khadijah to ask whether she might like him to trade on her behalf. Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam), having dealt only with male traders, was somewhat respectfully shy to ask her, so he told his uncle that perhaps she would contact him if she needed his services. When news of the conversation reached Hadhrat Khadijah, who was twelve years his senior. She told those close to her that if she had only known he was willing to trade with her wealth she would have offered him the opportunity long before, and so a messenger was sent to invite him to come to her house and discuss arrangements. When Hadhrat Khadijah met Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) she respectfully asked if he would take it upon himself to act on her behalf with her merchandize. She told him that she had already learned of his reputation for honesty, truthfulness and knew of his high morality. Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) agreed and as a mark of appreciation she told him she would gift him with twice the usual amount. Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) accepted and thanked Hadhrat Khadijah for her generosity and returned to his uncle to tell him the good news. His uncle was delighted and told him Allah had sent him this blessing. Just before the end of the month of Dhul Hijjah, Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam), in the company of Hadhrat Khadijah's devoted servant Maysarah, set out on his first trip. Upon reaching a placed called Tayma, Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) and Maysarah sat down to rest under the shade of a tree not far from the hermitage of a monk named Nastura, who, surprisingly rushed out to greet him. After the exchange of greetings, Nastura kissed Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam)'s head and feet then said, "I believe you, and bear witness that you are the one Allah mentioned in the Torah." When Nastura saw the mark between his shoulders, he kissed him yet again and bore witness that Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) was to become none other than the Messenger of Allah, the illiterate prophet of whom Prophet Jesus, peace be upon him, had prophesied would come. Then, he turned to Maysarah and told him, "He is the last Prophet, I wish I could be with him when he is called!" Maysarah was taken aback by Nastura's statement; it was indeed something to tell his mistress. After taking their farewells Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) and Maysarah continued on their way to Basra and as the heat of the mid-day sun blazed down, Maysarah noticed clouds, driven by two invisible angels, casting their continuous, protective shade over his companion. When they reached their destination Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) concluded his commerce and wasted no time setting off back to Mecca. Many days passed before they reached the familiar outskirts of Mecca then, at long last, they finally reached Hadhrat Khadijah's house around mid-day. Just before their arrival Hadhrat Khadijah, who had been resting in an upper room, happened to glance out of her window and saw them returning riding on their camels, then, to her amazement as she looked up into the sky she saw the clouds drifting above Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam), shading him from the intense heat of the sun. After the camels had been attended Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) went to greet Hadhrat Khadijah and tell her of the trades he had made; to her surprise she found her commerce had doubled. Hadhrat Khadijah, true to her word kept her promise and gave Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) his handsome gift. Later, Hadhrat Khadijah spoke to Maysarah about the matter of the clouds and he too confirmed he had seen the same thing throughout the journey. He also related the bewildering conversation and witnessing of the hermit monk, Nastura, and told of the many blessings they encountered upon their journey.

THE MARRIAGE BETWEEN PROPHET MOHAMMAD (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) AND HADHRAT KHADIJAH

Hadhrat Khadijah had been deeply moved and impressed by the things Maysarah told her. Her cousin, Warakah, who was well versed in the scriptures, also spoke highly of him and so she sent her friend, Nufaysah, to discreetly inquire why he had not married. His reply was simple, it was because he had very little money to support a wife and family. Nufaysah asked him if he would consider marrying a rich, beautiful lady of noble birth, whereupon Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) inquired who the lady might be and was told it was Hadhrat Khadijah. Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) was very happy, he respected Hadhrat Khadijah as she was known among the ladies of the Quraish as the "Mistress of the Quraish" and "Al Tahirah" - the pure. Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) went to Abu Talib to tell of the proposal, and they, together with Hamza went to ask Hadhrat Khadijah's uncle for her hand in marriage as her father has passed away. Hadhrat Khadijah's uncle, Amr, Asad's son gave his permission and the day of the wedding was set. On the day of their marriage Prophet Mohammad (SallAllaho Alaihi Wasallam) released Barakah, his maid, from service. Shortly after Barakah married a man from Yathrib and later gave birth to a son named Ayman, however, in the years to come Barakah was to return to the Prophet's household.

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SOURCE:
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